We all looked our best in our early twenties and maybe we used to do all kinds of fun activities. But if you are, say, forty today then you need to look like a forty year old in your pictures. Just because you used to be a runner five years ago doesn't mean you still run today. Let it be. Let the information and pictures on your profile represent who you are today. Let your profile say what you can offer someone today not how you would have treated them in the past.
Even though I am older than the last time I was on the dating scene, I actually feel that I have more to offer now. I am more comfortable in my own shoes and the experiences that have changed my life have made me a better person. So when you see my profile, you will see pictures taken within the last year, a description of my personality as it is now, and hobbies I currently enjoy (or at least participated in the last year). I suggest you do the same.
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